I come from a big loving family that is still very close today. I have been truly blessed by my parents, siblings, and my extended family. When I married Jearen, I knew he had a big family too, and I was excited about that. I can understand how some people would be intimidated by such a large family if they were an only child and didn't have close relatives around. Thankfully I have had the privildge of getting to know some wonderful people that I can call family.
My first reunion experience was 4 years ago when Jearen and I had already been dating a year. I wouldn't say I was intimidated, but I was a little overwhelmed. Here I am with a guy I love, meeting his Aunts, Uncle, Grandparents, Great Aunts & Uncles, and so many cousins. I wanted to impress them all, because frankly I wanted them to like me and approve of me for Jearen. They went above and beyond to welcome me into their family, and I've been coming back to visit with them at the reunion ever since.
One thing I didn't get to have growing up was a close relationship with my own grandparents. Both of my grandfathers passed away before I was ever born, so I never got to meet them or hear stories from them. My grandmothers on each side lived out of town, and the times I spent with them I will always cherish. Having said that, one of the coolest things I have been given since marrying Jearen has been relationships with each set of His grandparents.
His Dad's parents (Nana & Grandaddy) have shared some amazing stories with me about living in Abilene, teaching, and serving in multiple wars as I sat on their couch in Rockwall, TX. Their love for the family is huge and every time we get together is another opportunity to grow in our relationship.
His Mom's parents (Wonderful & Papa) are two hard working servants who are always helping others out. They go on yearly mission trips around the world to serve others and share Christ's love. It's been a joy knowing them and seeing their example.
Looking down the road, I can only pray Jearen and I leave the same legacy for our grandchildren. One full of love, serving others, and sharing Christ.
I realize someone reading this may have a small family, and maybe some are not close with their relatives. Let me encourage you! If you have an unresolved issue with a member of your family, call them up and sort things out. Life is too short for you to hold onto grudges and pain.
Let your family know you care for them. Pray for them. Call them. Spend time together. Love them. Be thankful for the people you are related to, because FAMILY MATTERS!
-Becky
