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Thursday, October 22, 2015

Becoming a Certified Teacher: My Experience Using An Alternative Program

Disclaimer: The following are my opinions of using an alternative program to become a certified teacher in Texas. The program I used, Texas Teachers, is not paying or endorsing me in any way to say any of the following. My opinions do not affiliate with the program’s opinions, and this post is ONLY to encourage those who may be thinking of getting certified to teach using an alternative program. This post has been written as a way to answer any questions that you may have about alternative teaching programs, and is also part of my testimony. For more information about Texas Teachers, please check out their website directly for the specifics and details that I may have missed.
I wanted to share my experience using Texas Teachers, because over the past few days, so many people have reached out to me to ask about the program. I want to share as many details as I can to help those who may need more information about the program that isn’t mentioned on their website.

My Story:
When I decided that I wanted to become a teacher, I was a junior in college majoring in Communications, and had no plans on changing my major. My plan was to get certified after college using an Alternative Certification program. Sometimes plans take a long time to actually happen. That was my reality.  Case in point, I graduated, moved to the DFW area, gained a job at a preschool (no certification required), and got married. Then, in the first year of marriage, all the talk of me becoming a certified teacher was blurred through fears, doubt, laziness, and lack of motivation. I was a newlywed enjoying my marital bliss, content with my job, my life, etc. But really, underneath the positive lens that my eyes and heart sees things, I knew I wasn’t fulfilling all that I was called to do. The weight of knowing that I was capable of so much more grew on me, and eventually, finally, I made the decision to get the ball rolling. I decided to sign up for Texas Teachers to get my alternative certification because I had two friends that were going through the program, and they recommended it. That was really the only information I had. I didn’t spend hours researching different programs, and just sort of jumped into what was being presented to me through my friends. My journey will probably look different than others, but I did not complete the program as fast as I would have originally planned. My dream to become a certified teacher started almost 7 years ago, and I am just now living out those dreams. I’m going to share my thoughts, opinions, and the timeline that it took me to complete Texas Teachers. Hopefully this helps answer any questions you may have about getting certified to teach through an alternative program.

The People:
There are two kinds of people in this program, at least that I encountered. There are the ones who are super organized, take their generalists test a few weeks into the program, and already have interviews lined up. They are the first ones to speak up when asked a question, have the perfect resumes already filled out, and have been subbing for a while. These people unintentionally made me feel SO inadequate. I felt so behind, not together, and lacking in so many ways. Despite my feelings that I had to conquer, these people are necessary. They somehow push you to do more, even if they do slightly get on your nerves (lol, just trying to be honest here).
Then there are the people who join the program after working in the business world for 20 plus years, and have more experience working in the real world than you have in your little pinky. They are ready for a career change, and you find yourself sitting next to some pretty diverse people. They are necessary because they remind you it’s never too late to chase a dream, change your career, or start a career without any previous experience in it.
 I felt like I fell into the middle of those two groups. I wasn’t fresh out of college, having worked at a preschool for at least two years at this point, but I also didn’t have an awesome resume built up with countless contacts and experience in a middle school classroom. Whoever you encounter in the program, don’t compare yourself to them. Yes, they may have been in a school district building contacts and experience, but that doesn’t mean you are any less. And yes, you may have to sit next to the person that has a lifetime of knowledge, but remind yourself that if they can do something new, so can you. The right opportunity to teach will open up for you. You are needed. You matter! Despite your age, background, experience, or timeline.

The Time Frame:
Texas Teachers does not have a strict time frame. I began the program in April of 2012. During that time, I had to complete online training, reading, quizzes, and assignments. I became certified (passing my Generalist 4-8 test) in August of 2014. I was hired in August of 2015 at the school I teach at now (Praise the Lamb!). Once my first year is complete, I will be officially done with the program. Ideally, you take the trainings, take your generalist exam (and pass), then begin looking for a job. Once you find a job, you fill out an application on the Texas Teachers website, and then begin Intern Projects throughout your first year. Hopefully, you’re timeframe will go by much faster than mine did, since the MAIN reason it took me so long was because of fear. I will address more about fear at the end of this post!

The Cost:
When you sign up, you have to pay $300 as a deposit. The program itself is roughly under $4,000, and you do not have to pay that until you begin your first year of teaching. If for some reason you pay the $300 initial fee, take the trainings, and then decide not to go through with getting certified, you are not obligated to repay the $4K. Your repayment does not begin until you begin teaching. So in my case, I paid the $300 in April of 2012, took the trainings, waited a year to take my test (more on that later), and then waited another year before getting hired on to teach. Now, in 2015, I am just now paying back the program fee (they take it directly from my paycheck during the first year until it is paid back), and that’s it.

The Training:
There are two options when it comes to training. Option 1 is that you can do the entire training online, at your own time. There is not a deadline that the online training has to be completed by. Option 2 is that you can do half of the training online on your own time, and the other half of the training face to face at a designated time and place. I went with Option 2, knowing that I am more of a hands on learner. If I remember correctly, I had 6 Saturday trainings that lasted from 8am-3pm in Arlington. Yes, it was a sacrifice to give up my Saturdays for two months, but I was encouraged through the speakers, the activities in the training, and the people.

The Exams:
I chose to take the Generalist 4-8 exam. I have always been drawn to this age group, and spent time serving students in these grades in a church. Taking your generalist exam is one of the most important factors in becoming a certified teacher (duh!), but for some people, the test is not so easy. I managed to pass the first time I took the test, but if you are in a time crunch, I would suggest taking the test as soon as possible. It cost around $150 (more or less), and this charge is not covered by Texas Teachers. If you fail it the first time, you may take it again, but you will have to pay the full price again, so I would make sure you have studied before re-taking this. Sidenote: I used certifyteacher.com as a study guide. I think the cost there is $60 for the online study material, and it helped a lot. I also bought the Generalist 4-8 Study book at Half Price Books for $30. The next exam I took was the ESL test. This is also $150. Again, I would find good study material before taking the exam. I am thankful that I had a parent in the district I was working in let me borrow some ESL study material for free. The PPR exam is the last test you will need to take. Going through Texas Teachers, you cannot take this exam until you have begun teaching on a Probationary Certificate (you are on probation until your first year is complete). I have not taken this test yet, but will in the spring.

The Support:
Texas Teachers does a fabulous job in offering support. They have online help, personal to answer phone calls, and representatives that you can speak with face to face. During my training, I didn’t have a lot of questions, so I didn’t utilize any of the help they offered. If you have questions, concerns, or just want more information, they are there to give you all of that! Being in my first year of teaching, I have been assigned a Mentor through the program. This person visits you in your classroom three times throughout your first year to provide feedback, direction, and offer help. They also host a Teacher Job Fair exclusively for Texas Teacher Interns (you’re considered an intern as soon as you join the program). I attended this in July, and I am so thankful I did. I had never been to a job fair before, but I knew to dress professionally, bring multiple resumes (I had 30), and sell yourself. I spoke with several school districts, and was even offered an interview that afternoon at the fair. The district I work for now was one of the last districts I spoke with that afternoon. When you attend a job fair, especially a teacher job fair, be sure to apply online to as many districts as you can (very time consuming) ahead of the fair. Most representatives asked first if you have already applied, and if you hadn’t, they will direct you to do that first. Also, be open minded. I had never considered the district I am in now, until I saw them at the fair and realized that they met several of the criteria that I was looking for. Remember, you are selling yourself just as much as the district is selling himself. Schools need YOU just as much as you need THEM!

Your First Year:
During your first year of teaching, your assigned Mentor will come to your room to observe you three times. I have already been observed twice, and both times went really well. Don’t be nervous about someone coming to observe you teach. You already took the training, gave your time, energy, and effort to teach. Now is the time to show off your hard work. Be open minded to criticism, because being a first year teacher is not a walk in the park. You need the support of a mentor to help walk you through areas that need improvement, as well as areas that deserve a pat on the back. My mentor is completely lovely, and I always look forward to seeing her. She makes me feel awesome about the work I am doing so far, and provides me with great ideas on ways I can enhance my teaching methods. During your first year, you will have to complete some projects online, as well as take a few quizzes. Again, the time in which you want to do this is up to you, but it must be completed before the year is over. The last and final step of the program is taking the PPR exam. Like I mentioned earlier, I will be taking this test in the spring.

Final Thoughts:
If you are considering getting certified to teach, do it! Don’t let fear keep you from obtaining what you have been called to do. Let my story of becoming a certified teacher encourage you. Yes, it took me WAY longer than necessary to become a certified teacher, but I am thankful that God makes all things work together for good (Romans 8:28). If you have the desire, believe that you will be equipped for this! I posted on Instagram a few weeks ago, but I wanted to share this again on here. “All fear I ever had towards this job has dwindled. Fear was the biggest reason it took me so long to jump into teaching: fear of failure, fear of not being liked, fear of doing a bad job, etc. I have had nothing but good reports, observations, and encouragement. Praise the Lord! Everyone was right, God would put me in the school I am supposed to be in. I totally believe that. All of this to say…He is faithful!” I hope I have answered any questions you may have about the program. Let me know if you have any other questions, and I would be happy to help. Also, feel free to share this with someone you know who may need a boost of encouragement in wanting to teach. Living out my dreams of being a teacher was definitely worth every tear, hour, and sacrifice it took to go through with getting certified through an alternative teaching program. 
-Becky

Monday, September 22, 2014

Sharing The Gift of Love: My Message at Thrive Live!

Hello again!
It's been a while since I've blogged, and lots have gone on in my life, as I'm sure you can relate.
So if you are reading my blog for the first time, welcome!
If you are a familiar face to my blog posts, then welcome back!

At the end of August, the women's ministry at my church (Abundant Life Church in Grapevine, TX) hosted an event called Thrive Live. This event was set up as if you were attending a live talk show, with guest speakers (me being one of those speakers), dinner, desserts, give aways & more. Funny how I planned on blessing others with my testimony and walked away being blessed myself! God is good :)!

I shared with the audience how God uses us to share His love with others. Today I'd like to share on my blog ways YOU can share the gift of love with others too!

Just as a little background about me: I come from a big family, being the forth out of five children, and so I always wanted to be entertained growing up. When my husband and I first started dating, I was adamant about being creative and having fun together. Through the years, my passion for having regular date nights and making memories in our marriage has become a part of my DNA.

In 1 Corinthians 13:13, it says "but now faith, hope, and love abide, these three, but the greatest of these is love." Love is something I am passionate about. I have been married for four years, and being a wife is something I do no take lightly. I'm sure you can relate, as being a mother, a daughter, a friend are all roles we value in ourselves. I want to do my very best at fulfilling this "role" that The Lord has given me, and a big part of that is sharing love.

Now please don't tune out if you are not married. This can be applied to all relationships, whether that is with children, your parents, siblings, or even friends. We all desire to be loved, and Jesus is the ultimate example of love. When sharing the gift of love, we have to realize that love from ourselves in our own flesh can wear out, grow old, and fall short. Pray for Jesus to fill you up with His love (which is unconditional), and let that flow out of you onto others. There are a few things I want to emphasize when it comes to sharing the gift of love to someone. I'm going to use my marriage as an example, but please adjust these examples to how you see it fit into your own life and relationships.

1. DO NOT COMPARE.
I learned early on in our marriage that when I compared my marriage relationship or the way we did things to others, I only hurt us. I remember a time that my husband got annoyed with me, because any idea I had on something was not my own opinion, but what I saw another couple do. There is a quote that says "Comparison is the Thief of Joy." How often do we find ourselves trying to compare to others: their relationships, the way they raise their kids, financial decisions, their walk with God?! I found that I often would feel disappointed when my husband didn't do the exact same thing as another couple did when we first started dating. Like any relationship, when we put expectations on the other person and don't communicate that expectation, our feelings get hurt. I quickly changed my perception on dating and took it into my own hands to plan and create. By doing this, I took away false expectation that didn't need to be there, and allowed myself the freedom for us to be our own couple and enjoy the time we spent together, without the comparison game. That sparked my passion for implementing date nights into our marriage, because I valued our time together and the memories we were creating for the two of us.

2. YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE UNIQUE.
My marriage is different than my best friends, my parents, my siblings marriage. We may have the same values and beliefs, but the DNA of our relationship is different, and that is fine. For some of you, your friendships may be different. For others, your children and the way you raise them may be different than your neighbor. That simply means that sharing the gift of love looks differently for each of us.


3. APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE.
Make the most of the time you have with the ones you love. That may mean hours of talking, acts of service, creating atmospheres to be honest and vulnerable with others. Other examples of showing the gift of love to others is in volunteering, cooking a meal for someone, taking a trip, gifts, helping in time of need, and praying over someone. Show gratitude for the blessings that God has given you. Your spouse, child, parent, friend, are all blessings. Find joy in loving others and know that God will give you the love to share to others. 
CRAFT- DATE NIGHT JAR
I brought a date night jar to show an example of ways to be creative in sharing love.


These are some of my very best friends, and they encourage me in so many ways. They each encouraged me during one of the hardest times in my life, and gave me gifts of love with prayers, chatting, hugs, texts, and laughter.

I really learned to appreciate what I had when my world came to a holt and I was in the middle of a storm. I will be blogging about that storm & God's love for me through it in the weeks to come, so stay tuned!

 My hope is that you will be inspired to create something for you and your loved one. The gift of love isn't about the amount of money you spent, but it's about spending time together. Be encourage and inspired by these ideas on sharing the gift of love.

Becky


Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Seasons.

I stood outside on our sidewalk this morning, waiting for Maggie to finish her business, and all I could see above me were dark clouds rolling by. The air was crisp and you could smell the rain coming in. I took in a breath of fresh air, and immediately began thinking about Fall. I'll be honest; I love every season. Each one is so unique and comes with different adventures & memories. Don't think that by me saying I can't wait for Fall that I am over Summer, haha. I know that there are still several weeks left and I'm sure it will get VERY hot again before August is over.

 I wear a ring on my right hand (James Avery- Seasons) that constantly reminds me that there is a season for everything. "For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven."--Ecclesiastes 3:1

I'm reminded that through each season, I've been lead by the Lord and he has provided, protected, loved, graced, and blessed me. Some seasons are full of holidays, hangouts, gifts, and resting. Some are full of hard work, sleepless nights, and being challenged. In saying this, I know not every season is easy, and everyone's season may look completely different. I'm ok with that! Why? Because each season teaches us, molds us, challenges us, strengthens us & changes us. Without going through different seasons, we wouldn't understand God's grace. We wouldn't have been given the opportunity to gain strength. We find joy, embrace love, and seek wisdom because of the seasons we have walked through. Every season matters! 

I'm not sure what prompted me to write about seasons this morning, but I have a lot of people close in my life who are going through some pretty tough ones right now. In the physical, there isn't much I can do to help these situations, but in the spiritual I can do two things: pray & encourage.

I pray that God's peace will cover your heart and mind. He knows the situation and is still in control. I pray that he gives you wisdom and direction as you go through this season. I pray for His love to overwhelm you like nothing you've felt before, because He does love you and wants to walk with you through this. I pray for any anxiety/worry to be gone in Jesus name. I pray He will surround you with people who will encourage you and love you. I pray that you will open your heart to allow healing to take place. I pray you find comfort and rest in your Father's arms. I pray all of these things for you dear friend, in Jesus name. Amen

"Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!'- Psalm 27:14

"I will rejoice and be glad in your steadfast love, because you have seen my affliction; you have not delivered me into the hand of the enemy; you have set my feet in a broad place."- Psalm 31:7-8

"For our heart is glad in him, because we trust in his holy name. Let your steadfast love, O Lord, be upon us, even as we hope in you."- Psalm 33:21-22

"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope."- Romans 15:13

"For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace."- 1 Corinthians 14:33

Know that you are loved & being prayed for, no matter what season of life you are in. If it's a season full of hardship, seek the Lord! Surround yourself with people who will encourage you and walk with you through this. Spend time in His word and allow Him to speak to you. Know that you won't be in this season forever, and keep your chin up. And even though this one may be tough to do, thank God throughout it all. He may be teaching you something and giving you strength, even if you can't see it for yourself. If you are in a season full of joy, excitement, everything is going great, thank God throughout it all. It's easy to think that when we have all of our stuff together that we don't need God, but OH how we do. Praise him for all he has blessed you with and brought you through. Encourage those around you who may be discouraged.

Every season matters, because YOU matter; to others and to God.

-Becky